10 Simple Tips To Handle An Anxious Kid

Check out this article on the 10 simple ways that you as an adult can help your child overcome anxiety in their daily life.

Anxiety is a feeling that is characterized by being uneasy, worried or afraid.

It can happen to almost anyone, both adults and children, as occasional anxiety is normal. It happens when people are faced with a problem or are about to take a test or when they are in any other similar situation. It is a strong feeling of being tense about things that are about to happen or might happen in the future. As adults, most times we have learned how to get past these hurdles and usually it is easier for adults to deal with anxiety.

This is mostly a result of different events and experiences we have gone through at different stages of our lives but for kids, this is not the case. Anxiety has the potential to cripple a child’s well being and is likely to change their orientations.

This is where we must step in as adults. The kids need all the support they can get and the following are some of the ways anxiety in kids can be handled.

1- Understand that you are not trying to eliminate anxiety but to help the child manage it

As adults, the first thing is to understand that you are not trying to get rid of anxiety and that you are on a mission to help the kid understand and control the situation. This will help you through the other steps.

2- Don’t try to keep kids away from situations that make them anxious

Keeping kids away from events that can trigger their anxiety might look like the best thing to do but trying to protect them and not allowing them to be exposed to such situations isn’t always the best way to handle it. Many things in life are associated with anxiety and you will not always be with them or even have the capacity to always keep them out of such situations. Therefore keeping your child away from anything that could cause them to become anxious is not a good way to cope with anxiety with your child.

3- Talk to the kid about anxiety and how they feel

It is very important to talk to the kid about how they feel and why they feel that way. This will help them to understand their feelings better and be able to cope. Once they are able to recognize their triggers your child will be better equipped to seek your support.

4- Encourage them to think positively

Kids should be encouraged to seek out the positive and be optimistic in all situations. This can help them overcome fear and anxiety. You can also help kids remember a time they overcame similar situations so that you can build their confidence.

5- Distraction and Emotional support

It can help younger children get past their anxiety if you are able to distract them with things like new toys, a hoverboard or a trending game. Playing games with kids can help curb anxiety in right the moment while they gradually learn how to manage the situations as they grow. Also, hugs and reassurance are good ways to help kids get through their anxiety, especially older kids who may not easily get distracted by toys and games.

6- Recommend books and movies

In specific situations that trigger anxiety in kids, you could have them see a movie or read a book in which such a situation is illustrated or described and of course how it was handled. Kids easily learn and pick up values from illustrations. Movies and books can also help them get a better understanding of their feelings and how to express them.

7- Teach and practice relaxation techniques with the child

Relaxation techniques like controlled breathing has been proven to help with anxiety in kids and even adults. You can teach kids how to take slow deep breaths and practice with them. This method works for all age groups.

8- Help them get started and maintain healthy lifestyles

Exercise has been shown to help with reducing stress levels and can help greatly with anxiety. Start a routine with the kids and help them stick to these exercise routines. It also helps with confidence and self esteem.

9- Set a good example

It is important to be a good example yourself to the kids. This means that you handle situations that make you anxious the way you would want them to handle theirs. This works like magic as kids have been known to pick up habits from adult figures they look up to.

10- Help them with their performance in activities they do

Kids may be anxious about school tests or roles they have to play in a school play or even sports. Help them get better in their studies and other activities they love to take part in and watch them replace anxiety with confidence.

Anxiety in kids can have a terrible impact on their well being and character. It is important as an adult to help them overcome it in this early phase of their lives and teach them how best to handle it which is not by avoiding the triggers but challenging it. It is also suggested to seek the help of a professional if things are not improving with these simple steps.